Getting Girls: Being a Jerk

[RikiRude]

As posted in a previous thread I shined some light on the being a jerk strategy for getting chicks. Some things to note:

1. This works best on girls you just met as opposed to girls you have been friends with for awhile.
2. This is not the ideal way (in my experience) to get a girl that you want to make your girlfriend.
3. You usually get better results if you are the same age, or preferably older then the girl.
4. Probably only works on about 90% of girls, there is a 10% that really do go for nice guys, so if you are a nice guy, for warning (from loads of personal experience) it's a uphill battle, so stop being so nice!

Evidence:
1. The best evidence to this working is as simple as this thing to notice, when you are nice to girls you like, the girls that you don't like always end up liking you.
2. Testimony! I personally have found out that scores of girls had the hots for me when I was in high school, girls who when I said "I always thought you were hot too." reply with "Really?! I didn't even think you knew my name!"
3. More testimony! I have talked with allot of friends that are girls who tell me how hot some dude is and I go "But he's being a total wanker to you!" and they say "I know, but I can't help it!" or "Why the hell do I like so and so he's such an asshole!"
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After all this you might be asking yourself, "But Riki how do I use this technique to get girls?!" well my friends that's quite simple!

All you have to do, make it seem like everything the girl says has no validity, which makes her argue her points more. Try not to make bodily contact with the girl the first couple meetings, not even if a flirty way, work your way up to being physically flirty. Don't be a straight up asshole in most cases, this is the hardest part to figure out/master. Some girls like it if the guys a complete and total ass, but most girls I think just like him to be a jerk. You simply need to present flaws that girls want to change and think they can change. Be confident, not cocky! I know this is hard to figure out for some people, but this is an example:
"Yeah I'm really good at PR" vs. "Yeah I totally pwn n00bs on PR, duh"
confident cocky

Girls don't usually like cocky guys. Be a jerk but don't be childish. The whole point is that the girl will go home thinking "Why is he a jerk to me? What did I do to him?" This means she's thinking about you, which means she's interested in you whether she likes it or not. When you finally stop being AS mean to her, she feels like she accomplished something and feels good about herself.

Not sure what else to add, anyone got more ideas to throw into here? I know there are guys out there who know more about this then me, considering I was a nice guy all throughout high school. So throw your two cents up here!

And also as much sense as this doesn't make, consider the following statement: "All females are crazy." As sexist as that statement I made sounds, I dare you, in fact I challenge you to prove it wrong!

[[R-MOD]KP]

Someone sticky this!

[SiN|ScarFace]

lol even if you show guys how to be a jerk, showing and doing are very different things. Not to mention girls will wear your jerk shield down and will catch you being sprung and drop you like its hot.

Don't fake the funk.

[[R-CON]77SiCaRiO77]

Originally Posted by [R-DEV]RikiRude

1. The best evidence to this working is as simple as this thing to notice, when you are nice to girls you like, the girls that you don't like always end up liking you.

100% truth

[noir-colombia-]

lol such a big writing , just to know that girls fits the tennis ball rule: if u hit them harder they will come sooner....

[[R-DEV]Gaz]

So walking around England drunk shouting SHOW US YER TITS at girls doesn't work?

[noir-colombia-]

Originally Posted by [R-DEV]Gaz

So walking around England drunk shouting SHOW US YER TITS at girls doesn't work?

unless ur a girl too.

[RikiRude]

I think in the states the spring break phenomena of frat guys asking to see drunken girls tits works very very well, though I can't say from experience sadly =(

and lol at scarface, true point though. but who knows how far you will get while that jerk shield is wearing down?

and nior that tennis ball thing should be the motto for this whole thing :razz;

[Thunder]

Originally Posted by [R-DEV]Gaz

So walking around England drunk shouting SHOW US YER TITS at girls doesn't work?

works in wales. (first one that says a sheep joke gets a 2 day ban)

[noir-colombia-]

ah and if u go like a friend first u will be end like one and theres no step back....just go for her as u wanna go (relation ship, sex ...)